Monday, 16 June 2014

L2YH 4...UNDERSTANDING THE INNER COMPASS AND INTERNAL CONTROL

Hello friend,

Happy day to you. Really been quite a while since we last corresponded. The twists and turns of life- such an amazing experience. Anyways,glad to be able to pen a few words to you today.

Sometimes,in our quest and journey towards the realization of our dreams,we tend to lose our way. Circumstances,situations,and even people(friends,well wishers and even enemies) make us deviate and forget our primary objective. We begin to wonder and wander. At such times,it is easy to become depressed,as we wonder if we would ever get it right. If we'd ever "arrive"-turn our dreams into reality. Have you ever been there? I bet you have. Who knows,you might even be there right now. Just want to offer a little advice in that regard.

Firstly,this experience of getting lost is not unique to you. You'd be amazed to realize that so many successful and great individuals down through history,did experience this,at one time in their life. Infact,some did experience it many times in their life's journey. Yet they did not give up. To be lost is one thing,to find your way back is another matter entirely. So the golden question should be how did they do it- find their way back.

In my own studies,I have discovered one unique feature among great individuals. At some point in their lives, they learnt to identify and listen to what I call the "Voice Within". They learnt to guide their lives by a kind of inner compass- an internal locus of control. They came to understand that deep within each of us,there lies the blueprint of our lives. It was put there by the creator before we were born. A guidance system that is expected to lead us on the path of destiny. Unfortunately,most of us never get to discover this truth. So we spend our entire lives seeking for answers outside ourselves- looking for answers "without",when they reside "within". But this select few(bless their hearts) travel a different path. They embody the advice given by one of the greatest business visionaries of the 20th century,when he said:

"Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important,have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary."- Steve Jobs

As a result,whenever it seems like they have missed their way,they retreat within- in moments of solitude. They retreat to rediscover. They don't expend and exhaust themselves like most people do,when all seems lost. Great souls understand that there lies a veritable well of strength and power within themselves. It is in all of us. But this well can only be discovered and harnessed in moments when you are alone with yourself. No wonder so few have come to appreciate such golden moments of solitude. Most people would rather be with everybody else,than spend some time ALONE- with themselves. Solitude scares them. If only they knew. That every great soul have at one time,drunk from the well of solitude. Where the real YOU is discovered.

So my friend,are you groping. Does all seem lost. It is not. If you can retreat within yourself,from time to time; if you can search out the voice within,and learn to listen,again and again,you will never be permanently lost. And yours will be a life lived fully.

Talk to you soon.
#keepingthehustleALIVE

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